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Post by junchurassi on Apr 3, 2008 17:52:28 GMT
not evils but i said as its is ther would be soo many sikh LGBT misusers of partnership thread and non sikh LGBT would just add to more nonsence thats its ... nothing against was just concerned about the thoughtful effectiveness of this site which might reduce with such a thread... even though it could be the reason for delight of many. and just because dozen of people are interested in discusssion and others are not then because of their needs this discussion value could be affected and would turn into sikh gaydor or sikh manjam somehting ...to which u also have agreed in ur previous comments... whislt where will dozen of us would go to discuss where as some there are some 30+ of aged singles who are already feeling lonely would join them as well .... but according to me whether a new thread reagrding partnership is started or not ... i dont think so it would affect those who really want to discuss... well those u want to discuss somehting can really concentrate on discussing if they want to since this partnership thread wont mingle along with other discussion threads so why should concerned people bother. let everybody stay happy u can either discuss something or do partnership its upto u...
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Post by robiszoo on Apr 3, 2008 20:52:01 GMT
Still it is just a fear of yours. I do not want it to happen but i also do not think it will. This site is not widely advertised especially on general gay sites and just to make you more relaxed as i obsreved most non-Sikh gays are not interested in Sikhs at all. And anyway if a Sikh LGBT wants to remain decent and pure hearted they won't let any lustriders influence them. But if they want to sink into dirt you can not stop them no matter how hard you try it. Your reason why you don't welcome non-Sikhs on this site is actually pretty racist and only based on your prejudices. It is absolutelly equal with the racism many white people show towards Sikhs or the homophobia many (Sikh and non-Sikh) people show towards gays. Think about it and let's talk about the problem if it happens.
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Post by junchurassi on Apr 3, 2008 21:18:49 GMT
hehe dear are u too bored to start an argument upon something which i havent said at all and i clearly in my words donnot mean at all... well i am feeling quite bored as well .. but pakistani plays on youtube are far more interesting ... the only issue is that the internet sucks and the speed is slow .... or another option u can read that 10 pages long prashsnt story posted by somone called sunny on the what was it 'marriage somethingh its soo painfully lengthy ufff u will definitely go to sleepy not bored of it but irritated of it ....hehehhehehehhe
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Post by sunny on Apr 4, 2008 0:48:53 GMT
maybe non sikhs (me) come here to try and learn about a good religion i dont convert for personal reason ...so dont USE your common BRAIN prejudging members intentions that article was very lenghthy YES<><<> but VERY relevant in INdia And America maybe they dont exist in swiss
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Post by junchurassi on Apr 4, 2008 1:10:18 GMT
ufff u all guys are soo high ‘PLEASE’ read before u type please i cannot repeat the simple thing again and again that i didn’t said anything racist about non sikh LGBT .. i just suggested to bar their entry when the partnership thread is started thats it because partner ship thread itself will lead to its misuse and non sikh LGBT would add extra to number of misusers ... may be ur an exception ... but most of the people are not like that way u think .. well and i also pointed out the fact at 90% of Sikh LGBT would misuse it as well ... and ur story of prashant is so unrealistic in modern day India of course .. i bet my life on that about US no idea... because I am born brought up in India and I have many educated friends like Prashant from conservative middle class families as well….
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Post by junchurassi on Apr 4, 2008 1:58:38 GMT
And if I am saying that both sikh and non sikh LGBT would misuse it which is inevitable my suggestion was just about simply barring the broader lot of LGBT (‘IN RELATIONSHIP THREAD ONLY’) than only one lot of misusers , then … It would just reduce the load of misusers … that’s it .. such a practical thought … I don’t understand if we all browines living in white countries and face this racist shit in our every day lives … do we need to get provoked by a simple non racist issue and consider it as racist just because our own lives are soo much surrounded with it… no we need not to just take it a broadminded way that’s it ….
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Post by jotsingh on Apr 18, 2008 9:32:44 GMT
beautifull. guru fateh jay singh nice job & thanks so much for posting article in sikhnet.com. we really need a gaysikhmatrimonial here
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Post by junchurassi on Apr 28, 2008 19:16:13 GMT
ufff jot u have naked pictures on gay dar with a tiny towel and u still havnet found a groom yet :-P lol
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Post by gregg on Apr 29, 2008 4:22:41 GMT
This is a great web site. I enjoy reading most of the posts. One of my first thoughts when I came across this site was that I sure would like to have a t-shirt with the logo on it in the upper left. Anything like this possible in the future?
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Post by robiszoo on Apr 29, 2008 7:26:16 GMT
Just been posted on Sikhsangat Prepare for the backlash. Where on sikhsangat can we find it? I do not find it anywhere. Could someone please put the link here? Thanks
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Post by asianvibe on Dec 28, 2008 2:55:18 GMT
Hi
I so overwhelmed that this site exists could have done with it a few years ago- I was n a lonely isolated place culturally even though I been out for the majority of my life and now 44. -So I'm really pleased at least where visible to each other. I'm quite Sikh culturally more than religiously although I like the Sikh concept of Seva - Keep up the good work and I hope people contributed to this site because it brilliant to see.
Sorry for any typo mistakes
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Post by flatearth on Dec 29, 2008 0:49:26 GMT
I just wanted to add that I'm very happy such a site exists for everyone. While I wouldn't want it to turn into a 'hook up' site, it's always good to have resources backed by real people with a common fiber. I know this was a long thread, but I think it's also important to not close off sections by religion or nationality because I'd always thought openness was key to any kind of communication and growth.. Here's hoping the community grows!!
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Post by robiszoo on Dec 29, 2008 16:19:04 GMT
Well we are over 100 members now!!! :-)
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Post by irrational on Dec 31, 2008 18:42:06 GMT
I just wanted to add that I'm very happy such a site exists for everyone. While I wouldn't want it to turn into a 'hook up' site, it's always good to have resources backed by real people with a common fiber. Guru Fateh, I know this was a long thread, but I think it's also important to not close off sections by religion or nationality because I'd always thought openness was key to any kind of communication and growth.. Here's hoping the community grows!! I agree with Flatearth, closing up is no way to be and is no solution for any societal or personal problems . I admit there is this comfort zone and much easier communication and understanding at a personal level when dealing with an individual of the same social background. I am sure everyone in this community wants an open acceptance by the mainstream society in general. As an individual try not to associate myself with a closed, hidebound, ossified community (I am afraid that Sikhism is headed that way) or an individual. Most Indians have a love hate relationship with the Brits (may be more so with the Sikhs living in the UK). It takes a lot of effort to be completely free of prejudice and that applies to humanity itself. Clannish behavior is a biological carry over of evolution. Humans have made a lot of progress but our brains are still hard wired for certain instinctive behaviors and functions carried over from the jungle. One has to work on it. Surd
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Post by jaylondon on Jan 17, 2009 15:15:47 GMT
It would be a shame for Sikhism to become a staid and ossified religion.
I was at a dinner last night where the wife of a Punjabi friend of mine was telling me about her upbringing in Punjab. Her family are Hindu, and yet she spent more time at the gurdwara than at the mandir because of the fact that she was brought up in the heartlands of Punjab, and she has tried to encourage her children to do the same. However, Sikhism has become less tolerant of people having such fluid beliefs in recent times, and this is leading to a very insular way of being.
Is there any way that the religion could be stopped from becoming conservative and moving away from its evidentally liberal roots?
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