dev
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Post by dev on Jan 2, 2008 8:32:56 GMT
please dont' mention marriage - i get nauseous at the thought of it.. is that wrong? i think it was arundhati roy who said that weddings reminded her of 'grotesque pageants'.. i think i'm being a bad sikh by saying this?
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Post by jotsingh on Jan 15, 2008 10:49:34 GMT
after 30 is good age to get married 4 gays
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sunny
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Post by sunny on Jan 15, 2008 14:43:27 GMT
im thinking around 35 for me everything is balanced out by then my life is too unstable yet to even consider dating.
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Post by irrational on Jan 27, 2008 1:44:16 GMT
Please let me know what you think of the website. Any suggestions on how it could be improved would be welcomed. Thanks Moderator Waheguru Jeeka Khlsa Waheguru Jee Kee Fateh, I chanced upon the site today morning EST. This is my fourth post in a day. It is a great site and hope it will stay civilized and not degenerate into one issue or one agenda site. i have a lot to say and will probably a regular on this site, Waheguru willing. I am very interested how and why of gay and bisexual existence. Will certainly like to see more activity and postings. Great site Surd
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Post by Jazzy on Mar 5, 2008 0:51:35 GMT
this forum needs 2 be advertised more!!! alot of people aint aware of this website...
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Post by jotsingh on Mar 6, 2008 9:41:16 GMT
guru fateh ji , any 1 ever try to ask siknet.com about having homosexual matrimonials or try to post gay serch ?
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Post by robiszoo on Mar 6, 2008 15:32:05 GMT
Sikhnet is not the right place for that. You can talk about gay issues on Sikhnet but you won't find a partner there.
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Post by Moderator on Mar 14, 2008 11:29:06 GMT
this forum needs 2 be advertised more!!! alot of people aint aware of this website... Hi Jazzy. Could you offer a few ideas as to where to advertise this website? I've tried to keep the website low profile to an extent in order to ensure that there is little or none 'unwelcomed' attention from individuals who may not share the liberal Sikh attitudes of most people on this site. Moderator
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Post by lostsoul on Mar 16, 2008 16:33:38 GMT
Just been posted on Sikhsangat Prepare for the backlash.
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Post by junchurassi on Apr 1, 2008 21:49:06 GMT
yeah this website is productive platform for similar people to gather and voice their minds out... but how could people are using it as dating site as well??? thats what i dont understand ... if this continues then this lovely site would become nothing but trash bin like plent of othe manjams , gay dars and craps. i guess people shouldnt be allowed to put up their pictures or else soon it might become one of those sites only let there be only voices and opinions which would lead to enlightenment upon certain issues whcih others might not even know or might wish to know..
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Post by Moderator on Apr 2, 2008 14:57:13 GMT
Junchurassi,
This website is for the benefit of LGBT Sikhs around the world.
If individuals wish to use the site as a means of perhaps meeting others in a similar situation to themselves, then they are free to do so.
The site will be opening up a thread where individuals who are looking for partners will be able to do so.
It should be noted that this website is unique. There is no other similar service for the LGBT Sikh community, and therefore it should endeavour to provide the facilities that the community requires.
Your comments have been kindly noted, and you are thanked for your interest in the site.
Kind regards,
Moderator
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Post by junchurassi on Apr 2, 2008 18:22:41 GMT
dear moderator
i agree its nice ot extend the facilities to do so but please ensure that those semi naked pictures are barred or else this lovely site would loose its uniqness. rest i thnaks u alot for letting the LGBT sikhs to come together and also non sikh LGBT shouldnt be allowed to join under fake names ... i hope some system to filter it must also come though it seemes to be immpossible but no harm in hoping so...lol
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Post by robiszoo on Apr 2, 2008 21:24:40 GMT
Do you have a phobia against non-Sikh LGBT? You said really strange things.
Anyway i agree that explicit sexuality should not come into the site but i do not think it is a problem if someone find a life partner through sarbat.net. You must know that it is extremely difficult to find a decent gay Sikh who is not married. This is why i agree with the LGBT Sikh matrimonial section on this site. The problem is if people use this site only for finding partners. There are plenty of LGBT Sikh issues out there to talk about and without these discussions the website would function like any other LGBT dating site. Without interest sarbat.net would lose it's Sikh element but i do not think it will happen.
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Post by junchurassi on Apr 2, 2008 22:16:36 GMT
well that’s what I told moderator but the moderator said they are having an extra thread for partnership search as it’s the only Sikh LGBT site connecting the Sikh LGBT ..it’s no harm starting to it as the moderator explained me that this site 'should Endeavour to provide the facilities that the community requires.' well it no harm starting an extra thread like that but m damn sure that people will misuse it and this site might lose its intellectual charm for what it is actually meant for because it doesn’t facilitate anything else other than discussion platform which i think itself is sufficient enough and it still has its own uniqueness even though only dozen of people are doing some serious discussion regularly but still at least there is some place where someone can come and actually speak .... well and if they are starting an extra thread for partner search and all then m sure certain people have certain fetishes for Sikh LGBT ...lol u won’t believe it but i have seen plenty... and they would love to jump into the ocean full of Sikh LGBT ...so to not to mess it up further i strongly suggested the moderator to not to allow non Sikh LGBT into the site meant for discussing Sikh LGBT issues within the Sikh community.. but unfortunately none can bar their entry and as it is on this site if u would have observed there are sooo many people who are just waiting for Sikh LGBT matrimonial site or other such related things... but moderator says this site must serve the requirements of the Sikh LGBT community... well i have mentioned plenty of times in my previous discussions that such things would affect the freedom of intellect for others who want to discuss some quality issues ... but u see there is no harm in starting such a thread but people for surely would definitely misuse it even though it might have restrictions but still this site would loose its charm as a discussion platform , only for those who actually realise what its charm of freedom of speech and thought is and if i have to find a partner then i wont see his or her religion or creed i would only look for some compatibility rest i know the whole goes on adjuts ment .. well but if u have ti start a thread regarding matrimonial and stiff then u have to restrict and control the people in a way in which they cannot ruin the actual sence of this site .. i mean the purpose for which this site was meant to be..
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Post by robiszoo on Apr 3, 2008 5:49:28 GMT
I understand your concerns but please don't generalize non-Sikh LGBT-s as evils. I know there are some guys who treat Sikh guys as a sexual fetish but it does not mean that all non-Sikh LGBT-as are like that. At the same time i know some Sikh LGBT-s who are just as sex-oriented unreliable shallow people so it is not a question of being Sikh or not. Look. Most of the users are Sikhs on this site but they do not really use it. Probably they are not interested or they do not really need this kind of a discussion board. 4-5 people discussing here so what are we talking about?
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