yaz
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Post by yaz on Feb 1, 2013 1:41:41 GMT
Hey Everyone Satshriakal / Assalam Alaykum I came across this website by random, and I hope that maybe I could get some answers or advise, As a muslim myself I understand the pressure of family and the need for getting Married, however last year i met a guy, a sikh guy and in the beginning all he wanted was to have fun and be mates but as the year went on i started to develop feelings for him,and now i can say I love him so much, however i feel that the person he is, as somewhat changed, He wants to get married and live a "normal" life yet i know he loves me too but wont admit it. were not together anymore yet I still think about him still want him still miss him and hes ok about being friends, any advise on how to forget him or do you recon he will change ? hes 23. I could go on and on and on however i know im not the only one in the boat and im sure there is alot of people in the same situation Waheguru ji ka kalsa waheguru ji ki fatey
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Post by sarbat on Feb 1, 2013 5:23:05 GMT
Nice story btw. It depend on both of u and u must respect his decision. The only one u can ask for everything is God. Ask Him for help and advise. U can do ur prayer (tahajud) ans let God take care of everything (ur feelings, ur life ect). Remeber "Kun fayaa kun". Im not a muslim but im sikh and i do believ ib that words. If God will everything can be done. God bless u and him.
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Post by Jalebi Girl on Feb 5, 2013 23:23:47 GMT
Remember Guru Nanek Dev Ji said "There is no Hindu; there is no Muslim." in the eyes of the greater consciousness all are equal.
As for your situation, let things settle and give some time for yourself as to which direction you want to take things. Don't undersell yourself, always value your self worth and don't settle for anything less. You deserve a loving and happy relationship, if this is not being offered to you walk away.
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yaz
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Post by yaz on Feb 7, 2013 1:23:53 GMT
Thank you so much Jalebi girl
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Post by Jalebi Girl on Feb 8, 2013 0:07:03 GMT
You're welcome
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