robin
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Post by robin on Mar 6, 2021 20:51:02 GMT
Hi Everyone,
Just feeling really confused and hope to get some insight from you all.
I’m a white guy whose been friends with a fairly devout sikh guy for some time. I have had feelings for him for a long time, and recently things have come to a head, and I’ve made it clear to him that I want to be more than friends.
He has kind of blown quite hot and then cold, which I can understand, but then just blew up and has threatened me really horribly, and said, “look pal I’m marrying a girl.”
I’m reeling at the moment, but I understand it might be hard for him. I know I ought to walk away but can’t. Any thoughts ?
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Post by JatSikhGy on Mar 6, 2021 21:52:43 GMT
Hi Everyone, Just feeling really confused and hope to get some insight from you all. I’m a white guy whose been friends with a fairly devout sikh guy for some time. I have had feelings for him for a long time, and recently things have come to a head, and I’ve made it clear to him that I want to be more than friends. He has kind of blown quite hot and then cold, which I can understand, but then just blew up and has threatened me really horribly, and said, “look pal I’m marrying a girl.” I’m reeling at the moment, but I understand it might be hard for him. I know I ought to walk away but can’t. Any thoughts ? Hi Robin, Thanks for sharing your story. It sounds like you're in a tough situation, particularly as you clearly feel something for this guy. In my limited experience, sometimes we just have to accept that no matter what, we can't force someone to reciprocate in kind as they may not be that way inclined. I don't know the details of your situation but when you say he blows/hot, it sounds like he maybe is or has been interested? If its easier mate email me. Jatsikhmunda@mail.com Cheers |
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cj123
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Post by cj123 on Mar 31, 2021 14:14:43 GMT
Hi Everyone, Just feeling really confused and hope to get some insight from you all. I’m a white guy whose been friends with a fairly devout sikh guy for some time. I have had feelings for him for a long time, and recently things have come to a head, and I’ve made it clear to him that I want to be more than friends. He has kind of blown quite hot and then cold, which I can understand, but then just blew up and has threatened me really horribly, and said, “look pal I’m marrying a girl.” I’m reeling at the moment, but I understand it might be hard for him. I know I ought to walk away but can’t. Any thoughts ? Hi Robin, Thanks for sharing your story. It sounds like you're in a tough situation, particularly as you clearly feel something for this guy. In my limited experience, sometimes we just have to accept that no matter what, we can't force someone to reciprocate in kind as they may not be that way inclined. I don't know the details of your situation but when you say he blows/hot, it sounds like he maybe is or has been interested? If its easier mate email me. Jatsikhmunda@mail.com Cheers |
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Post by cj123 on Mar 31, 2021 14:15:35 GMT
I am looking to create a post, just joined today, how can i create it as I don’t see any option anywhere. Thank you
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Post by Singh666 on Apr 8, 2021 8:23:46 GMT
I am looking to create a post, just joined today, how can i create it as I don’t see any option anywhere. Thank you Same way as you did by posting this |
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