I'm 21 from West London. Totally agree with summer, it's nice to see ladies actively using this forum. Everyone enjoying the Olympics?
hey notsure and summer,yes i agree good to see the ladies on here too! And thanks for welcome messages....not many asian gay girls around....not in the open anyway lol.....yeah olympics seem well good....anyone going to see them? After watching it on tv,i quite fancy going down there too! Seems like an awesome buzzing atmosphere.....hows everyones day been? Not sure, tell us abit about urself....what do u do....x
Yeah I know, it s a problem that alot of us are not out..but can you blame us?! Haha. Yeah Olympics look wicked..but most tickets are sold..but I went to the dress rehearsal of the opening ceremony..which was amazing right?
I'm a student at the UEL. About to start my second year. How about you guys? X
Im out to most of my friends and work colleagues, just not family. Im out to my sister but not my mum as it would probably break her heart and she doesnt deserve that.
My friends are really like family to me, so it kinda works for me like that, altho it would probably be a dream come true if my mum would be ok with it....oh well.... gotta stay positive and look forward to life.....
Wondering if you guys can help...I'm a 20 year old sikh girl from london who is as confused as hell!..lol...I discovered well last year that i may be a lesbian when I started to develop strong feelings of emotion and attraction towards my close friend whos straight...i dont know what this means....ive never liked a guy in my life...ive come out to friends but not family...can anyone help me whos in a similar situation??... what shall i do because i feel as if i still dont know who I am...
hiya confused, i can say that im in a similar situation. ive come out to friends but not family. After 3 years I can proudly say that I still dont know who I am. And I like the thought that I dont have to stereotype myself into a category to conform to a system. I think everyone goes through a phase of liking close friend..its normal! its just knowing how to control those feelings...lol easier said than done I guess. i just imagined how my friend would react and that made me control my feelings as i was pretty sure the outcome would not be good!!!
anyways i know i havent helped just wanted to let you know that you re not alone;)
thanks for replying!!...it really does help knowing u can talk to others in the same position and im not alone becaus it is a difficult time.........well i ended up telling my mate she took it very well tbh..butt it was very difficult controlling my feelings for her..nevertheless we still remain good friendss...what i find hard is what to do from here...does this mean i like girls noww...i just dont see myself loving a guy in that way....do u understand what i mean?....damnn this iss sooo confusing i dont know whether im coming or going lool...helppp!! lol
this is what i tell myself. be like water, go with the flow.
maybe you should tell her how u feel?! clear the air and all that....
yeah i know exactly what u mean about not seeing yourself with a guy..only time will tell lol! In a few years im about to hit that marriage wall. where my family will look for a guy for me and ill have to decide between my happiness or theirs. but im not worried for some reason, i think everything will turn out for the best..hmm
you dont know whether you're coming or going..i guess your bi then!
yehh i guess ur rightt...take each day as it comess i suppose...
andd yehhh i did..its all okayy..just had to move on reallyyy well try to.....and i knowww righttt..im alwayss being reminded about marriage.. kuriyee umar vadhi jandhi aa mundha labla koi.(mind my English Punjabi lol)...they've even given me a time limit..by 25 u should have found someone lol..and theres me thinking ahhh but u dont knw my lil secret yet lol...i dont know what im gonna do myselff because its like u obviously want to be happy but what will that do to your family members.....butt yehh i do hope things work out for the best and for all u guys out there!!....
butt if u dont mind me asking after discovering who u are..did u act upon this..meaning did u go out and meet a girl or anythingg..or want too?..