Post by karn145 on Jul 2, 2017 21:36:43 GMT
I am a Non Sikh Guy; 33 years old; Working as an HR in a small private firm. Looking for a Mature Men above 35; preferably open to family.
My life has been very struggling so I am not expecting ideal situations. But this is one thing in my life that i want to be stubborn about and not compromise over it. It is to love a guy and live with him through ills and odds. Though I expect a family; A Mom-in-law/Dad-in-Law; a brother or sister-in-law who could tease me while I could enjoy their company yet I know that I am Gay; I may not get all that I ask for. I know what being a gay means and I know I deserve all of it and not less than what a straight couple deserves. In my Family my sister knows about my sexual orientation; My parents have a doubt and right now they just want me to get married to a girl.
I had been in 3 serious relationships so far. One when I was in college that lasted for 3.5 years; another with an Army men (Sikh guy) for 1.5 years; we had to breakup because he told me that he is already married. I am not against it but I do not want to be a culprit to break a marriage union that he has been in already; I never admired that I will always be an odd one out. Then third guy 9 years of relationship; A business family guy who got married last year and has a child now. Obviously I am here now.
For me lies is a big thing; I am not one of those who like to put restrictions but I want to know one thing for sure that when I am in trouble; I know whom to call; when I am sad I know whose arms will hold me tight to make me feel secure. That is what I am looking for here. My parents are old and very dependent so I have no plans to leave India. I plan to have children of my own so I would not mind a lesbian couple around. I would love the fact that my child has two fathers and two mothers to shield him/her from all the odds of this world. I wont mind if you have children; it would rather be a plus point. Please do inbox me if we could talk for sometime to know each other. Lets keep meeting at a bay for sometime. lets take time to know each other before we can rush for a date.
Read more: sarbat.proboards.com/thread/1426/looking-gay-partner-couple-parenting#ixzz4mvqREMV9
My life has been very struggling so I am not expecting ideal situations. But this is one thing in my life that i want to be stubborn about and not compromise over it. It is to love a guy and live with him through ills and odds. Though I expect a family; A Mom-in-law/Dad-in-Law; a brother or sister-in-law who could tease me while I could enjoy their company yet I know that I am Gay; I may not get all that I ask for. I know what being a gay means and I know I deserve all of it and not less than what a straight couple deserves. In my Family my sister knows about my sexual orientation; My parents have a doubt and right now they just want me to get married to a girl.
I had been in 3 serious relationships so far. One when I was in college that lasted for 3.5 years; another with an Army men (Sikh guy) for 1.5 years; we had to breakup because he told me that he is already married. I am not against it but I do not want to be a culprit to break a marriage union that he has been in already; I never admired that I will always be an odd one out. Then third guy 9 years of relationship; A business family guy who got married last year and has a child now. Obviously I am here now.
For me lies is a big thing; I am not one of those who like to put restrictions but I want to know one thing for sure that when I am in trouble; I know whom to call; when I am sad I know whose arms will hold me tight to make me feel secure. That is what I am looking for here. My parents are old and very dependent so I have no plans to leave India. I plan to have children of my own so I would not mind a lesbian couple around. I would love the fact that my child has two fathers and two mothers to shield him/her from all the odds of this world. I wont mind if you have children; it would rather be a plus point. Please do inbox me if we could talk for sometime to know each other. Lets keep meeting at a bay for sometime. lets take time to know each other before we can rush for a date.
Read more: sarbat.proboards.com/thread/1426/looking-gay-partner-couple-parenting#ixzz4mvqREMV9