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Post by mockaur2013 on Oct 28, 2013 23:11:32 GMT
first of all i am so sorry to hear of your predicament...its not nice nor fair...in fact its the worst feeling in the world......being ostracised by the family who have given you life and birth!! you feel guilty for what you are and you feel guilty for hurting them, right?
Q - if love is good - how can it be wrong to love at all then whatever the outer casing may be!!!
A - for you is enter into a marriage of convenience (MOC) then you can have the best of both worlds .....its the easiest win win and if you enter into it properly as a friendship then you can accept each other as friends and your family will then consider you as being respectful once again
email me on chazza769@gmail.com for more of a chat about it - but i would be interested in a MOC
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Post by sarbat on Nov 5, 2013 16:31:09 GMT
Email me to sarbarsingh@rocektmail.com
We can talk more okay.
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Post by confusedbird on Nov 8, 2013 20:11:17 GMT
Hi, Sorry to hear that you have to go through a tough time. It's not very hard and we all are going to be there someday or some of us were already there. Don't lose hope. In situation like yours, most of us give up on everything. Don't do that. Hold on to even the last straw of faith you on Almighty. He will definitely help you. Mothers have always known if they child is gay or not. It's a natural instinct that they have. Your mom, as to what I believe was already aware of this bit she doesn't wanna accept or believe it. That's the real problem. Tell her how you feel about it. Clear her mind on the prevailing gay stereotypes. I can't understand why your sister-in-law back stabbed you. If she was not okay with she should have let you know before telling your mom about it. Well, as you are already out of closet, don't push yourself to get back in. Explain your side of the story to your mom when she is in a calm and peaceful mood and tell her that nothing has changed. You are still the same person. I believe she will come around. May Almighty be with you and help you to get through this. Take Care. Regards, S
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Post by Jazzy on Dec 8, 2013 20:16:57 GMT
You need to do whats right for you! its not easy but is your sanity and happiness worth all the grief?. As much as your family loves you and thin that they are doing the right thing; your going to have to stand your ground on this one!
My situation was similar.. 6 years later its got easier but I still have to stand my ground and be prepared to loose people in during my life.
I hope things get better for you soon!
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Post by ssingh123 on Dec 15, 2013 2:43:13 GMT
listen my friend, your family shud be ashamed treating you like black sheep. You must take charge of the situation for your own safeguarding. These cultural expectations are bxxxshxx and will slowly destroy you. Just get a job and get your own place and be in control. Think of no. 1 and free yourself from this asian cxxp. Ssingh
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