ksingh
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Post by ksingh on Jan 14, 2013 2:11:04 GMT
guys...i m trapped
i m 33 hay sikh..i m not out...i m lonely, i dont know what to do.
I m thinking of leaving home and moving away on my own.
I m uk born and confused as hell.my life is spiraling
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Post by rembrandt84 on Jan 14, 2013 9:57:39 GMT
Talk to us, post whatever is on your mind. I am sure we can do whatever is we can.
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Post by sarbat on Jan 16, 2013 15:11:19 GMT
relax, take it easy. do ardaas as much as you can. ask help from the almighty one.
n sms me. we can talk.
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Post by quantumdesi on Jan 18, 2013 16:37:51 GMT
Nice one sarbat..... Maybe not so much the SMS bit, but the rest is good  |
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Post by sarbat on Jan 19, 2013 7:08:34 GMT
Nice one sarbat..... Maybe not so much the SMS bit, but the rest is good hahaha,, no Mr. Desi. i know him, we ever talked before thats why i asked him to sms me, cos he got my number and our whatsapp are not connect yet  He really need a friend to talk. |
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Post by quantumdesi on Jan 19, 2013 15:39:25 GMT
Haha a ha.... I was teasing you |
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Post by Jalebi Girl on Jan 21, 2013 10:32:22 GMT
Great to read everyones supportive responses.
ksingh you certainly aren't alone, do get in touch with us. Things are never as bad as they appear on the surface, it's good to have people to be able to confide in.
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Post by Jazzy on Feb 2, 2013 12:16:28 GMT
KSingh you need to confront your fears! Have you considered coming out?
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Post by quantumdesi on Feb 4, 2013 18:12:37 GMT
Jazz y's right dude  it's about confronting your fears - easier said than done, but gotta be done |
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Post by backlash on Feb 9, 2013 7:53:17 GMT
guys...i m trapped i m 33 hay sikh..i m not out...i m lonely, i dont know what to do. I m thinking of leaving home and moving away on my own. I m uk born and confused as hell.my life is spiraling Hello, We all have periods in our life where we feel alone and isolated. We think no-one cares or no-one understands our situations. But, I hope these feelings are only temporary for you because even though it may be difficult to find support in your own community and family, you can find support on this forum and online . Sometimes moving away is a good idea. I'm going to assume you live with your family and moving away will provide you with the freedom to be open with your sexuality, if you wish, rather than lead a double life where you have to continually deny a part of yourself. So, moving away may aide you with 'finding yourself', gaining confidence and independence and can help clear your thoughts as well as establish new relationships. And maybe these moments of confusion and struggle are necessary for you to come to terms with your situation and can be used by you to understand and strengthen your own personality/identity, as well as providing clarity in the future. Just don't be disheartened and you can talk it through with us here. But, ultimately, do what you feel is right for you. |
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Post by sarbat on Feb 9, 2013 9:31:18 GMT
I don't know why i keep reading this msgs. i almost remember each line on this page. I have the same situation now and i think it's more worst. I'm absolutely alone, i have no close friends and no even gay friends. But honestly i'm very happy because i found this site and i'm feeling better but still i have no close friend who i can talk with everyday or anytime. One of my friends here (he is up here lol) suggested me to go to a site where i can find any local gay friends and have a talk and get in touch. but im living in different country with you guys who at least know about sikhisme and familiar with a turban guy and have beard and mustache. they are always look at me as shit and soo disgusting (I’m not negative thinking but it’s happen to me). But sometimes I feel like, well maybe it’s not the right time yet. I still have a faith in God. He will help me to find someone for me and my life will be change. Sometimes if feel soo fed-up and why do I have to be born into this world as a gay. But at least I’m not alone in this world. I know if my family and friends know about me they will throw me out and im doing my best now to prepare everything that might be happen in my life soon. I Just wanna get in touch with any of you in uk or us. Who knows I will jump to there soon. May God bless all of us. |
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Post by Jalebi Girl on Sept 5, 2013 13:57:25 GMT
Hey Sarbat,
I only just came across your post and wanted you to know that we are here for you, most people in this forum are going through or have been through something similar.
Sometimes it's not neccessary to find LGBT friends, just people who are open minded, supportive and understanding - there are plenty of those people around if you look and hang out in the right places - I would suggest that you engage in some sort of hobby or interest to preoccupy your time which will also allow you to expand your social circle.
Although homophobia still exists within the 21st century many young people are liberal of mind and more accepting than we sometimes give them credit for. Things are changing, one small step at a time.
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Post by sarbat on Mar 31, 2014 10:42:40 GMT
Hey Sarbat, I only just came across your post and wanted you to know that we are here for you, most people in this forum are going through or have been through something similar. Sometimes it's not neccessary to find LGBT friends, just people who are open minded, supportive and understanding - there are plenty of those people around if you look and hang out in the right places - I would suggest that you engage in some sort of hobby or interest to preoccupy your time which will also allow you to expand your social circle. Although homophobia still exists within the 21st century many young people are liberal of mind and more accepting than we sometimes give them credit for. Things are changing, one small step at a time. Thanks Jalebi, sorry been long time. I am busy with my company now, i just started my own design firm hope everything will be good. Rab Rakha Guys :*:*:* |
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it's about confronting your fears - easier said than done, but gotta be done