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Post by ricardo on Aug 21, 2013 21:12:26 GMT
Actually, mockaur2013 you have shown me a new perspective to having a moc..what you have said makes sense and like you say no damage to anyone and happiness to all. good luck. I would but im already married and regrettably in that trapped marriage where I am lying to my wife and family and the hardest bit is trying to force a fake relationship with my wife..........it would have been so much money if she knew the true me :-(
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Post by ricardo on Aug 21, 2013 21:16:44 GMT
sorry I meant that it would have been so much more easier if she knew the true me : -( I would hand over all the money and goods I owned to have that friendship and understanding with my wife where I don't have to get sexual with her or else she will suspect that I either (a) am having an affair (b) have turned gay or (c) have something wrong with me :-( good luck mockaur 2013 - may you have everything good I never had! brothers if you are out there please help our sister mockaur
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Post by Jalebi Girl on Aug 26, 2013 1:04:56 GMT
Read all of your posts with interest. I am from the legal profession. I see a lot of broken homes with children. Heterosexuals who once thought they were in love. All ages, colours, faith and religions. An MOC would offer stability and here's how it works. The only reason anybody would want to enter into an MOC is surely because they CANNOT disclose their true sexuality to their family, out of respect, culture, community etc. Therefore to keep all happy, if 2 like minded people were to enter into an arrangement (MOC) that they will continue with their own lives, put up a common front in front of family and friends and bring 2 children (their children conceived naturally i.e. sex for conception only or IVF) then whose lost out and where's the damage? The children would much love 2 parents who loved them and stayed together than 2 parents who hated each other and where the children were caught up in the battle! I know 3 couples who have had MOC and they all have children and are extremely happy! I am now looking for one following my Divorce. I am with a hindu man but owing to my parents being so respected within the community - I cannot and will not place my needs above my fathers by having a public relationship. Instead, I will front it with a MOC and will enjoy my relationship with my partner. Thanks for the insightful post mockkaur, this is exactly one of the reasons we decided to create a MOC section at sarbat, they can work for some people I believe. Until a time is reached within the Indian culture whereby people can openly and safely have public LGBT relations, a MOC can offer an alternative where everyones needs are met.
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